my five guys

*Warning! The following post may sound like an extreme exaggeration and bragging but it is only the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth*

So this is probably what a lot of people have been wanting to hear:

(i) My Parents

(ii) My brothers

I've been wanting to write about this and finally have the time to write them down:) Let's talk about (ii) first.

The famous reactions I get from people after revealing I have 5 (yes, FIVE) brothers and me being the only girl is that:

"Ah anak manje eh?"

"Ohh your parents must treat you extra special!"

I would beg to differ because (a) my parents pampers us all the same and (b) I'm treated no differently. And when I retort, "Oh no no we're treated all the same" they smile and wave away my reply.

But the thing is, we really are not treated that differently. We have equal amounts of house chores distribution. I have never felt that we have been treated unjustly. In fact, I can never recall a time I was treated more special than them.

What can I say about them?

First and foremost, trying to describe them one by one would do no justice. They're so unique as individuals and the only thing I can do is to describe them collectively. And even writing out these things is only a small description of the type of brothers they really are. But I shall attempt.

1) They're like my best friends, apart from my parents. I can enter their room, hang out with them anytime and talk about whatever. It's like a conversation is so easy to strike.

The number of fights I've ever had can be counted by my fingers. And the best thing is, my brothers never keep anything to heart. I either have (very rare) arguments with Safi or Ahmad and even that doesn't last a day. Sometimes I'm still so caught up in the issue and sulking but they're already gone and past the issue and when I conjure up the courage to finally say "sorry", they stare at me and say, "What are you talking about?" like the matter did not hurt them.

2) They're like body guards. When I ask that I need to go out here or there, they would willingly and voluntarily drive or escort me anywhere. Plus I like having two older brothers. When I feel like all hope is lost, it's as if they know what to do.

3) They are multi-talented. If I have problems with the computer, or a software prob, these adventurous guys come to the rescue and almost immediately fixes up the mess. It will be insufficient trying to even LIST down what they can do. Much less what can be done when they work together.

4) They do not need to use any girly stuff. Combs, pins, clothes, shoes, room all are mine :)

5) They make the house fill with laughter everyday. Especially at dinner time. Well, they make MY heart fill with laughter anywhere anytime.

6) They are not moody or emotional. Which makes it easier for me when I need someone to turn to. And whenever I am, they will always understand and might cheekily add "Oh it's her time of the month."

7) When I come home from Cyberjaya, even if it's weekly, they will all run downstairs to greet me at the door and "salam2", hug me and be as if I have been abroad for 3 years. You do not know how much of a treat that is.

8) They are extremely supportive. Like that one time when I really really wanted to go to this park, they all gave in. They even played around at the park eventhough there weren't really anything there. And once, when my parents picked my up from cyberjaya, they hid behind the bus stop in their kain pelekat (after solat subuh) and planned to surprise me in a very strange manner- but it was a success!:P

9) Whenever I go out out with them, I don't have to worry about bringing a book or anything to keep myself occupied. I know there's always something to talk about or something to laugh over.

10) They do not roll their eyes at my petty matters. Like when I want to take their photos together. Or I ask which dress looks more suitable to wear at that moment. They always "layan" up to the smallest matter.

11) When we are at gatherings/restaurants/out, it's as if we are in our own world. We talk so loudly like we've just been reunited after 10 years of separation and we burst out in laughter at the smallest things.

I would have to say I'm the luckiest girl in the world:)

When my friends sometimes go "Awww I wish I had brothers too!" I sit there and smile. But really, inside I'm smirking with so much pride because I DO feel lucky to have brothers.

I'm not saying we've never had hard moments. My brothers have fought; but I don't recall any physical fights. And every day they can get on each others' nerves just for fun. But at the end of the day, all I remember is smiles and happiness. While some people think of getting away from home to get a peace of mind, I want to come back home whenever I need to cool my head.

I might have wished I had sisters when I was 8 years old. I might have felt lonely sitting by myself at gatherings since all my brothers would be at the males' side. I might have felt a little frustrated at times when my girl friends would be too shy to come over to the house after knowing I have all brothers. I might get upset when they leave their mess everywhere, are sometimes insensitive to emotions and fight over whose turn it is to wash the dishes.

But honestly, truthfully and sincerely, I love them all to bits. And would never ever wish to have them replaced (says the protective sister hahah).

Along, Angah (ie Ahmad), Safi, Syarif and Siraj; I love you guys.

Please know this all the time:)