My personality (?)

Sent from a friend about my personality:

Your thoughts are often on others and their needs, especially those close to you, and this is observed through your projected personality. You are seen as one who is responsible, in service to others, and trying to establish emotional harmony. Sometimes you are seen as a fatherly or motherly type. It is observed that you are capable of deep affection and sacrifice. When meeting new people, you tend to be either suspicious or gullible, sometimes switching between the two in succession. When threatened emotionally, you can be seen as defending yourself to near irrationality. You enjoy good clothes of good material, and like to be comfortably dressed. To enhance this personality, you should always be well-dressed and give thought to the way you look, rather than giving it the lack of importance or carelessness as is your tendency.

When I read it, I was quite intrigued at how it sounded like me (to me that is). I've always quite wondered what type of person I am and this gave me a new outlook on things. Though there are of course many other things I wish I can improve it:)

Yes, throughout my life, I have been told that I am gullible. Easily believe people. Either I lack knowledge, or as I explain it, I prefer to trust people:) Up to MY extent. Though I'm not so sure what extent that is:P

I like to think about people and their needs!:D Though maybe I'm not THAT sacrificial. I can say I'm sensitive (as repeatedly expressed by another friend of mine). I can easily be hurt and I've tried really hard too face rejection boldly; but to no avail. When I can't reach expectations, I can become so emotional and out of mind (whatever that means:P) and obssessed with it, even after it's passed. And I really do easily cry. Throughout my whole year at school, out of all the people in school, I've cried the most IN school. It's really quite embarassing that I've been telling myself to be stronger and be a strength for people but instead i'm showing my weakness and potraying that I can't really do it. I mean, crying shows you're soft-hearted. But crying too much is just...too much.. Ahaha.

Quite a number of people HAVE told me that I'm soft-hearted. My teachers said that I should be more firm. Ahmad says he's surprised how I became the Head Girl, because I'm not that assertive and I'm a lot more soft-hearted. Ahahaha.

Oh well, as time goes on, I'd like to know more about my personality. Or rather, I'd like to build my personality to the best:)

~nadhirah
six forty seven post meridiem
twelfth december two thousand seven